wedding!!!

haha...so happy and sad at the same time...
but i guess the happiness will sink in deeper than my sadness

y saD??
cos i've been feeling so terrible for the past week...
before i went to bali already had stomach upset...
then today...WORSE of all!!!
omg...juz this morning in about 2 hrs already go toilet 5 times...
i thot i will juz move my desk to the toilet...hahaha

but anyway...
i took mc and resting at home now...
so super xinku
tml dunno can recover anot...

haha...but one good good piece of news...
my wedding invitations are ready!!!
i juz have to write in all the names...
then i can start distributing!! haha...
hooray!!!
so friends who are invited...
u should be receiving my calls pretty soon...

tour leading assignment

well...in office now...finishing up on the last minute stuffs...
flying off to Bali later today...
i guess...this will be my last tour leading assignment in the next yr...?

anyway...wish me luck...
and enjoy my trip!

bad bad experience at MAX BRENNER

well...its National Day round the corner again...
as usual...the Singapore Fireworks Festival is here too!
was looking forward to the first display last saturday on the 05th aug...

went to work as usual...
the day had been same...
nothing much special...
was bored...kelvin gotta stay home for the day...
so asked wing go orchard for some shopping time...
bought my moisturisers for both day and night
cos Metro was having storewide 20% sale...hahaha...
but she bought even more!!!
omg...juz look at the bags of things that she bought...

met kelvin at scotts for dinner...then marvin came over to join us...
after dinner...we took a cab and went over to esplanade to see the fireworks display...
we got a pretty good view...cos we were on the esplanade bridge...haha...
but then...very very squeezy...
the wind was a good thing...cos it made the situation less stuffy...

guess i was too excited over the fireworks...
i was literally jumping non-stop...and screaming "wah...wah...WAH..."
hahha...kelvin muz have been soooo embarassed...
i guess so...and baby didnt like it too...haha
cos after fireworks i had this super actue pain in my stomach...
u shld have seen the worried look on kelvin's face...

anyway...all 4 of us went to esplanade after that...
cos i wanted chocolate fondue...
and the nearest place i remembered that served that was Max Brenner...

omg...wat a bad decision that muz have been...
the ridiculous queue not to mention...
and the rude service that i seriously dun think we deserved!
the service staffs were crowded together chit-chatting...
(or at least they look so even if they werent...)
when people were impatiently queueing outside...
the food was not served diligently...
guests are kept waiting outside AND inside the restaurant...

worse was...darling was ordering from the menu...
nowhere in the menu, restaurant or anywhere else was anything stating that certain foods are seasonal and/or subjected to availability!!
after me n wing ordered our fondue...darling ordered his food...
3 times, 3 different items he ordered...he had a rude "no more" answer...
WTF!!! i was like...what kinda restaurant or even a cafe is this?!
they're not exactly cheap...and obviously people expect SERVICE for the price they charge...
they're located in an arts centre...and u shld keep up to your name!!!

food was served ridiculously slow...
and i was like rattling on and on and on to darling and my friends...
CAN WE JUST LEAVE THIS PLACE!!!
i'd rather go somewhere else for ice-cream...

even when we called for the bill...it took ages to come!!
SHIT them lo...got time to chit-chat...no time to bring bill over...
nvm...then i gave $50 note for $30+ bill...not very exaggerating rite...
not like i gave them a $1000 bill or something...
wah...they tell me they no change lehz...
i nearly wanted to strangle them...
then best lo...give me i think $6+ $7 worth of coins lehz...
can u imagine...it wasnt even like near closing time ok...
how can they run out of change...
if that's an excuse...that's a ROTTEN one...

i seriously think people out there...shld think twice before going there again...
unless their service standards improve...
i think its doom time for them...

anyway...stupid me forgot to take the receipt when i left the place...
if not...i sure go CASE complain about their service de...

lucky for the restaurant...they dun have a webby or a contact email add...
if not...this entry will be posted there instead!!!

jolene's 21st birthday bash

well...a couple of weeks ago...
went for jolene's 21st birthday bash...
it was held @ pasir ris downtown east...
below are some photos i managed to "steal" from friends...


after the birthday bash...
we were supposed to go Boat Quay for World Cup match de...
but then hoh...think we were too late that night...
all the pubs with tv were already full house...
so we went to WOW club...
sit..drink..chit-chat...
but i was getting very very bored...
cos no alcohol for me...that also meant no games for me...
then we left early...
in fact very early...
even before dusk n kin came over we left le...hahaha...

happy married life...

haha...darling is jealous le...
i'm pretty...
but i nvr mention about my handsome hubby...hahaha...
sorry ma...darling...dun angry ok...haha..
anyway... i knw u're not angry with me le la...
that was juz a joke rite...hahaha...

if i'm pretty princess then u muz be the handsome prince ma...
that's understood de...dun need me to say one...hahaha...!

erm...still havent taken our outdoor photos yet...
cos the photographer sprained her leg...
so its been rescheduled to this sat...! which means...2 days from now...
hahaha...more photos for me n darling...

well..one of the most frequently asked questions muz be
"so how's married life like"
hahaha...i muz say...its fulfilling...and happy...
now i've got more "brothers" cos kelvin has 2 brothers...
and i've got much much more relatives than i can ever imagine...

i'm still learning to adapt...
living with in-laws is something i muz really get used to...
and i also need time to realise that i've got much much more relatives and cousins now...

but well...the good side is...
i've also got many many more people doting on me now!!

and darling has been sweet and doting...
he always picks me up from work whenever he can...
coax me to slp first...
give me a good morning kiss before he leaves for work...
and also not to forget the talks to "baby" every night...

but well...i've been sick this week...
everyday also dun feel well...
everyday also dun wanna go work...
finally today mc liaoz lo...
hahaha...
*sadz* *pout*
tonite darling cant book out...
so nvm la...i came back to my home...haha
packed my room...and updated friendster...
did some stuffs...and slacked the whole day!!

wedding photo (1) - indoor shoot

haha...i went for our wedding photo shoot today...
although weather wasn't good today...
it didnt spoil my mood at all!! haha
was still very very excited about the shoot..
and the whole thing...haha

here are some pretty photos of mine..!

me in my evening gown...


me and darling in my evening gown look...

hahaha...sooo happy today...
the make-up artist and the photographer both say i look pretty
hahaha...they say my features very sharp...
and i'm very photogenic....
hahaha...
then they dolled me up very prettily wor ...


my traditional costume lo...
i feel i look quite special la...
but then hoh...henry say i look like vampire...
shant post anymore of this design then...haha....

next one is....

my super cute jap style!!!
haha...the way they styled my hair...
wah...i super like it sia!!
really lehz...haha...
so cute...
see my personal shot!

kawaii desu??


that's me in my bridal gown...
pretty ba??
haha...cannot imagine me looking so pretty rite??
haha...i knw i'm being a bit bhb here...
but who cares....
i'm a bride only once in a lifetime...
i guess i have all the reason to be pretty??
anyone disagrees??

did anyone notice this photo is especially big???
hahaha...
cos this is my favourite shot!
i look so pretty rite??
and my hubby so super smart...haha
we're the best-matched couple...
at least for the day...
haha...

and why do i say so??
cos the other couple who was also taking photos...
the bride hoh...looks unfriendly de...
she's so fierce-looking and so stern
and i think she's quite fierce to her husband too...
she controls what he wears...
*eeks* so scary....
i guess...its muz be pretty tough on her hubby...
anyway...i wanted to take a photos of her one...
but i scared she angry
so i dropped the idea...
hahahaha

anyway...back to me!!!

see...that's my "elegant" look with the head veil...

okok...that's all folks...
we didnt manage to take outdoor shoot for today...
cos...BAD WEATHER!!!
argh...nvm...next week it shall be...
haha

now its time for some candid shoots!!!

that's me...trying to take a full length photo of us...by ourselves!!


SIA air-stewardess -- in-the-making...


aiyo...SIA stewardess...becomes a puffer fish!! hahahahaa


ok...that's my hubby's younger bro...alvin...for those of you who didnt knw...
haha
after so many attempts then we managed to take one pretty shot ok...


ok folks...this is not the fierce bride...
this is my MOTHER-IN-LAW...
hahaha...
they say we look like sisters...
really ar????
is that a complimentary or...???? hahahaa

legally married

haha...i'm legally married!! haha...
the solemnization was easy...
it was juz a simple process of signing the cert..

to listen to the long story...blah blah blah...


the oath...the famous "i do"...


exchanging rings...
can see the xinfu look on my face...
or rather...our faces?? hahaha

then comes the photo-taking session...

darling, and his parents...


me n darling...and papa mama and didi...

then comes photos of me and my darling!!!




hahaha.....great fun...
my bro was having fun too!

the best moment...was when the solemnizer announced us man and wife...
and presented...mr and mrs lim junhong kelvin...
omg...u cant imagine that excitement and happiness...

i hope i will never forget this moment...

and we will always remember this happiness we are having now...

now time for some naughty photos...

hahahaha

bullying mommy...haha...

boxing didi...haha....

i won...i won...

aiya...haha...think i'm juz like wat jolyn says...
i cant be angry for too long de...haha
not with kelvin anyway...
(not at my colleagues too of cos...hahaha)

juz like wat she told me to do...
i didnt sms...didnt call kelvin

then when i went for checkup...
he finally called and apologise le
hahaha...

i won...i knew i would...haha...cos its not my fault ma!!!

he gave me false hopes that he would go with me...
then tell me cant go...
and expect me to juz let it down??
sorry...i cannot...haha....
i juz have to make some trouble for you...
to show my existence...!

hahahahahahahhahahah

why dun i understand you anymore...

why dun i understand you anymore...
have i changed so much?? that you become unrecognisable...
or is it the other way round??

i dun seem to know you anymore...
sometimes you seem so distant...
i dunno what are you thinking...
i dunno what are you doing...
i dun even know why is it that everything seems so unimportant to you...
have i juz become so unimportant to you?
or it has all the while been lidat??
juz that i nvr noticed??

can someone pls tell me???

why is it that he seems like the perfect guy ard...
but turn him ard...and he'll juz scold me off...

or perhaps its true that i'm juz too pampered...

u're under stress...yes...i understand
i nvr doubted that fault...
but am i not?!
am i undergoing anything less??
i dun think so right...
at least u can seek refuge at your camp
stay away from everything else...
stay in camp
juz dun book out

but wat can i do??
where can i go??

i used to have sorrows and hid in your house...
now...that seems not possible anymore either...

help me...

someone pls help me...

save me from these...

if getting married and everything else is going to be lidat...
i dun wanna get married anymore...
i dun wanna get married and regret my choice...
are we really too young?!

where have all the initial happiness gone to??!??!?!?

angry...super angry!!!

can someone pls go scold the shit out of my hubby?!
i'm juz super + super angry right now la...
so angry i can juz break out into tears right now...
even though i'm in office...sitting in front of my computer...

he knew it ok...he knew weeks ago that i'm going for the checkup today!
he knew i was going alone...
he said he dun wan me to go alone...
he said he will do sth about it...!

but wat happened...
he juz sat on my words...
and let time run...
till ytd, his officer tell him there's duty to be done today...
then he tell me i juz gotta go alone...
super disappointed and angry ok..!

if he had meant to go with me at all...
even the slightest bit, he would have done something...
he could have taken leave or applied for time off or sth well in advance right?!

well...perhaps gals can nvr understand army...
he said i was unreasonable...and that i dun understand him...

yah...perhaps i really dun understand him that slightest bit...
cos i dunno what's impt to him and wat's not...

he didnt even take leave for the solemnization...
or rather, he's not planning...not even the afternoon leave...
he's juz trying his luck with timeoff...
fine then...if he's doing things this way...
why then, am i getting so worked up?!
i also take time off lo...
why shld i waste my leave lidat...
if timeoff not approved then lagi better...
dun need to get married!!!

gown fitting...

haha...so happy...slept for over 15 hours on sat...
hahaha....nvr slept for so long before...
really nice shiok slp sia!
but too bad for dar dar...
he had to miss the soccer game at boat quay with wei and gang...
cos i was having nightmare...
and he juz couldnt leave me at home...

then hoh...sunday go play mahjong...still the same la...
lost...but ok la...not lose alot...so nvm...haha...
then come home...slp again...

so whole of this weekend...all i can remember is slp slp and more slp...hahaha...

then today after work...met wing and went for my gown fitting...haha...
some pictures of 3 of my gowns...
the bridal...the evening...and the bridal gown for outdoor shoot...hahaha...
try guessing which is which...!
and try guessing my favourite...

a fairytale come true

the past weekend had been great!

it was like a fairytale come true...
the whole weekend had been so wonderful!
especially on friday...

finally...he proposed decently...hahaha...
why do i say decently?
cos we've been arranging for our wedding already ma...
so no doubt i'm definitely gonna marry him...
but he hasn't proposed before!!!

no way am i letting him away with this...

so...finally he proposed...in his comm ball...
really...in the middle of his comm ball...
it was pre-arranged one!!!
and he kept me in the dark all the while...
it was a super pleasant surprise though...
and super romantic...

hahahaa...
juz couldnt stop laughing and smiling for the rest of the weekend...

then sat i couldnt wake up for work at all...so...
took mc and slept for the morning...
went for sushi buffet and then harbourfront...

then sunday...another slacky day...
stay home...slp...watch tv...go ah ma hse for dinner...
that's all!
hahaha...

but end of the day...still so super tired...

even now...also super tired...
and super uncomfortable...
haha...nvm...in good mood still!

so fun...

i'm beginning to love my life more...haha
went with kelvin's parents to choose the wedding package yesterday after work...

think its more or less decided and settled already...
tml morning can go choose my gowns and set date for photo shoot...
haha...

then dinner also almost settled already...left all those nitty-witty stuffs...
muz start on the photo slideshow...
muz decide on the choice of the mcs...
muz start printing invitations...
etc etc etc...

haha...so tiring...but so fun!!

darling know which camp he is being posted into already...
some Selatar camp...and dunno going there to do wat thing yet...
dunno gotta stay in camp or can book out de...
but anyway..i guess...at least after he's posted there...he's an officer already...
shld have a better life than now ba...hopefully for him...

ytd...came back to work after one day mc
saw gina...so tired and haggard...
couldnt help but feel for her...
she's so sad...but cant cry...
i really pray that God will take away her pain
and release her father in the best way He can...
Gina...be strong ok...we'll all be praying for you...and your family

haha...life is getting better!!

as if being a queen is not enough...
i think my luck is changing for the better...haha
hopefully...its gonna continue this way...

anway...i knw when and where my banquet's gonna be held already...
haha!!

guess my previous entry was really like bitter...
haha...
well...if you realise....
i blogged when i was working...
and unhappy things do happen in work...

this morning...we realised i made another stupid mistake in work...
shant elaborate on that anymore...
cos i dun wanna be reminded of it...
was rather unhappy the entire morning tho'...
but anyway...these arent going to affect me n my mood!
nope...not even the slightest bit...haha

but nevermind...went to collect my new contact lenses...
then went to the IT fair at Suntec...
was quite interesting...very packed...and some really good deals...
very tempting prices for the laptop i've been eyeing on too...

then met darling...
went with him to settle his donation card thingy first...
set my date for ROM...
went to see bridal gowns as well...
more shopping tomorrow...

haha...i literally am having anything that i wan...
everywhere...at home...at his place...in office...
haha...
i'm the queen!!!

gotta go bathe and slp now...
haha...
tired liaoz...

congrats to me!

well...i've realised that its fortunate to be marrying the person u love...
and who truly loves you...

and it's actually a breeze...
letting the person who does not loves you go...
which is also the person whom you do not love as much...
at the same time...if this person has brought you only hurt...
and memories of him are all sadness...
then there's no point in remembering him right?! haha!

i simply cant tolerate men who badmouths and bitches about you...
behind you...
after being together...
isn't whatever happened...between the two of them only?
this kinda men isn't destined to have gd relationships or gd women to them...

let's wait and see who will have the last laugh!

people who are waiting to see my marriage fail, you will NOT get your wish!
i think there's only this one person who cant wait to see my marriage fail ba...anyway...
i will be blissfully married...and my marriage will last a lifelong...
your wish will NOT come true!

already decided...the wedding will be held in early lunar 8th month...
so people who are being invited...you will get your invitations soon...
but people living in areas like punggol...sengkang...chances are i dun wan to trouble you...
hahaha!

anyway...darling's bringing me for photo shoot think somewhere later this mth...
cos he say he wants to celebrate my birthday for me...
in a romantic way...haha...
so...i'm not celebrating my birthday...
haha...not sad also...
cos...i'm juz in this blissful mood already!

excited!

hi all! i'm getting married...soon...but dunno when...
haha...
surprised right...
but well....its natural...haha....
afterall, me n my bf have been together for so long already rite...

our parents are meeting for dinner tonight to discuss about details...
and darling is not here with us...
cos he's gotta be in camp...booking out only tomorrow...

talking about darling...he's getting his sword today!!
haha...and next sat is his commissioning parade...happy
*darling...u've finally made it...after 9 long months...*

so friends...close friends will start receiving invitations soon enough...
for those who do not receive...u're just not invited...
haha...dun blame me...
its juz bcos we do not wanna make it too big a thing...

seems like its been some time since i last blogged...
quite a lot of things happened...
and quite major events as well...
could have well changed my life...
anyway...it did not happen as i would liked it to...
haiz~
did a decision...
which i may regret for life...
but well...wat other choices do i have??
i still have to think rationally rite??

do i still have the choice to play by my emotions?
can i still do as i like??
can i let go of all consequences??

NO...i cannot!!

haiz~ how i wish i can juz let loose of everything and juz do wat i wan...

i'm back!!

this is juz a short post...that i'm back!!!
haha...
this had been a fascinating trip...
the people had been great...
had great fun with all my newly made friends!
shall upload more pics when i have time...haha...

all ready to go!

finally...i'm all packed and done!
but omg...my luggage weighs 16kg...
die liaoz
come back sure overweight
hahaha

haiz~ dearz managed to call back juz now
but the reception was super bad...
*sadz*
didnt manage to talk much also
haiz~
then he gotta fall in le...

but he was so sweet to drop me a msg first also...
hahaha!
*happy...*

anyway...hopefully he can call me before i depart ba...
a msg would be gd too...haiz~

then this time...guess i'll still be going airport alone ba...
daddy gotta work...
my bro went out already...
mama is still in malaysia...
think she cant rush back to send me to airport also ba

hopefully someone will come pick me from airport when i come back ba...