updates on baby kayden (5)-baby full month

YEAH!!!!
baby's finally a month old!!!
we juz celebrated full month for him on saturday
and our friends and relatives were here to see him too!

here are some of the photos of that day...

that's my dear carrying baby...
we were on our way to ah ma's place in the morning


this is kelvin's ah ma...
so is baby's "lao ma"...haha
(great-grandma)
haha...see how happy she looks feeding baby water...


we were on our way back home to get ready for the celebration!
see...baby was sleeping...haha...guai baby!


these are darling's friends...
they were the earliest of all for that day...they reached at ard 4pm...
and they lost their way...hahaha...
darling had to go pick them up...


then came my friends...hahaha...
see...i'm still the fattest...haiz~
I WANNA BE SLIM AND PRETTY FOR CNY!!!


then they wanted to carry baby...
soooo....that's liwen carrying the baby...


that's lynn and her bf...and baby...
see how sweet they look...haha....

so far so good...everybody carried baby well...and maintained the smile on their faces...


but wat happened to Qiumei?? hahaha...how come she looks so weird carrying baby????
cos baby was struggling and crying when she carried him...
haha...that's how i managed to get her at her ugliest...haha
sorry qiumei...


that's kelvin and his friends sitting outside enjoying a chat...


that's the food catering...
my FIL cooked curry chicken...and it tasted damn nice la!
(according to my friends)

anyway...the relatives came over at ard 7pm...
and we forgot to take pictures again..h.aha...
CNY ba..CNY shall take more with relatives...

now...its time to end off this post...
final picture...


darling...me n baby...
HAPPY FAMLY!!!

to travel or not???

well well...
the past few posts have been about baby...
nothing about myself at all...
hmmm...this is MY blog lehz...!
think i might as well set up another blog for baby...hahaha!!

i have been good...recovering well and etc...
i'm soooo looking forward to next weekend...
cos it spells the end of my confinement!!!
~woohoo~
anybody knws the significance of it???

it means that i can bathe...and wash hair...
wear shorts...sleeveless tops...
no need to wear socks and slippers at home..
and most importantly...i can go out!!!

can go shopping for CNY clothes...
can go Chinatown shop for CNY goodies...
can bring baby to the park for walks...

haha...i'm happy juz thinking about it!!!

however hoh...haiz~ super sianz...
juz looking at myself in the mirror jiu sianz...
although i can fit into most of my tops already
i cant fit into ALL of my bottoms...!!!
especially my jeans and all...
those that i can fit into...are the "tie-around" ones...
saddening situation lehz...
somemore...CNY coming already...how am i going to go out?!?!!?!
i want my pre-pregnancy figure!!!!!!!!

i'm gonna start my jogging regime next wk...
and my sit-ups...
and i'm so gonna get the OTO Trimax thingy to help slim my tummy and hips...

anyway...now...torn between another thing...
i really wanna go...but how...?
wat shld my decision be???
Kelvin say go for the trip...
but my friends advise against it...
dunno wat my in-laws will say...

updates on baby kayden (4)

haha...remember i mentioned man hei and gang came over to visit??
finally...i received the pictures from maggie...
below are juz 2 of them...haha....
a bit dark...cos i FORBIDE them to use flash...
i scared baby's eyes cannot take it yet...haha...
hopefully u guys can still see the details and the people in it...


anyway...haha...baby's celebrating full month next sat...
we've settled the cakes...
they'll be coming next thur so i can go distribute next fri!!
haha...going back to office...
muz make sure they say i slim back...haha...n become prettier!!!

then sat...food...catering...still looking and deciding...haha...

updates on baby kayden (3)

haha...its time for updates on baby again...haha...

yes...he's growing good...
getting more and more well-adjusted...
learning to slp better at nights...
i guess he needs more time!!!

anyway...took some pictures for him juz now...

isnt he cute???


now for some nudity...haha...i snapped a shot for him before his bath...
look how bad he was crying and struggling!! *heartpain*

updates on baby kayden (2)

oh well...i had typed a long long update on baby kayden...
but its lost now...
dunno wat's wrong with blogger...
ARGH!!!!!!

anyway...re-type...

baby kayden's growing well...
eating more and more...
for your info...
he's drinking 90ml of milk every 3hrs ok...
i'm not sure if that's alot too...anyway...it seems alot to me...

but he's grown into a big and chubby baby..
very cute and fun to look at...
cant play much with him now though...
cos he cant move much yet...
but juz looking at his different expressions...
is fun enough for me to be looking at him all day long!!

dunno why...the photo of kayden i uploaded in the previous entry was "miraculously" deleted by blogger...
so here they are...more photos of kayden boy!

well..these 2 photos were taken on the 16 jan...

yesterday ka meng, man hei and maggie came over to visit us...
stupid mommy...forgot to take a photo of all of us...
anyway...thanks for dropping by....
really appreciate it!

btw folks...baby's full month celebration is planned on the 03feb...
however, cant really invite yet...
cos my in-laws are inviting all their relatives...
so until i get the details sorted out...
cant really invite you guys yet...
so sorry ar...
once i have everything...i'll start calling/sms-ing u all...
take note ok...it'll be in the evening...
and the god-fathers...remember to keep time off!!!

updates on baby kayden

haha...baby is 13days old today...
after visiting the polyclinic twice...
i'm glad that baby is "certified" to be healthy...
as in...no jaundice...
~phew~

well...we're all coping well...
slowly...everybody's learning to adapt to baby's habits...

oh yah...btw...i'm back at home...as in...kelvin's home in semb...
sort of had some bad arguements at home with my mom
and decided that i shouldnt bother her...
and cause her so much inconveniences...

anyway...we're all doing well now...
my in-laws dote on baby...
my 2 bro-in-laws are ok...

the maid's doing her household chores and learning to care for baby
i certainly hope that she will learn to take care of baby in the day also!
then i can start going out next mth after my confinement...
~hiak hiak hiak~

presenting baby kayden

and now...
presenting baby kayden lim!!



particulars of baby:
name: Lim Zi Hang Kayden (林子航)
date of birth: 04 January 2007
time of birth: 14 41 hours
place of birth: KK hospital
weight at birth: 3830g
length: 53cm
head circumference: 35cm

more on baby kayden

wow...finally...i'm starting to get used to baby's habits...

he's always crying in the middle of the night...

guess i'll have more sleepless nights ahead of me...

although my in-laws and hubby always tell me to leave the midnight feeding to the maid...

i should get more sleep...and try to recuperate during this period...

but i simply cant sleep when baby's not sleeping...

when he's tossing and turning...i'm worried...

when he's crying...i juz wanna go carry and hug him...

but i'm not allowed to do...cos that will spoil him...

so i can only lie on my bed and see him fidget...

~*sadz*~

first night he came home...he woke up at 12 midnight and started crying all the way until almost 4am ar!! omg...

i didnt know what he wanted...
he kept crying and crying and crying...

finally...it was because he was hungry...

aiyo...scare me lehz...how come he suddenly drink so much at night?????????

then last nite...2nd night...i already made more milk for him...but still...

NOT ENOUGH!!!

so he was awake...but luckily...not crying as much as the previous night...

and shorter time period also...

awake from 2+am to about 4+am lidat only la...

now...he's sleeping since his morning feed...

that's y i have abit of time to blog...

haha..

so...here's a photo of baby kayden...

grabbed from june yi's blog...cos i dun have time to make a collage yet...

hahaha...

isnt he cute....! haha...

baby kayden

hiz all...yes...my baby's born!!
he's baby kayden lim...was born on 04 jan at 14 41hrs...
he's so cute!! but so naughty also...
only likes to sleep in the day...
dont let me sleep at night...
exhausted just looking after him...
its sooo much worse than working and going tour leading and etc...
but juz looking at him gives me so much satisfaction...
shall post some photos of him when i'm free...
now i need to bring him for his checkup...

anyway...i've already uploaded his photos into my web album...
guess some of u should have received the invitation link to view it already...
and some of you would have seen him in the hospital already!

happy new year

haha...its 2007...
i was anxiously waiting for baby to give me stomach ache...
but it was a disappointment...
nope...i didnt give birth to the oldest baby in 2007...
but also luckily...he's not the youngest baby in 2006...hahaha...
its not a joke ok...its only a few minutes of difference...

well...baby is still safe and sound...warm in mommy's womb...
i guess he must be super comfortable inside...
that's why he's refusing to come out...
hmmm....maybe i should start eating things that he doesnt like...
ha.ha..ha...

anyway...to recap 2006...not for anybody...but myself...
2005 certainly wasnt a good year...
that's why 2006 began much better...!
and it had been a super fast-paced year...
tonnes of major events in my life...
super lots of wonderful memories!!!

i had the love of my life back by my side...
i remembered i knew that this was going to be a good year...
cos i went for the AIG annual dinner...and won a lucky draw prize!!! it wasnt a big prize...juz a $50 voucher i think...but it began my trail of good luck for the year!!!
was sent to new zealand for the first time of my life...
had my taste of bungee jumping...jet river rides...real snow-skiing on the queenstown mountains...

then came back to singapore in one piece...but 2 lives...
had the biggest shock of my life...
went to register for marriage...
moved into my hubby's place...
then darling commissioned from OCS proper...went to his commissioning parade...

a few weeks later...it was his commissioning ball...was grand...held at conrad centennial...a fun night...and he proposed!!!

it was the most romantic thing he had ever done...and i'm sure i'll never forget that night...full of memories...i'm sure...for both of us...especially when that was only 3 days before my 21st birthday!!
had my ROM banquet...not many people attended...cos we didnt invite...only family members were there...but it was heart-warming...

had loads of fun taking my wedding photos...

went at the studio...we must have been one of the easiest couple to take photos of...

then went sentosa for outdoor shoots...wanted to climb that "孩子树" but i wasnt allowed to...~BOO~
then i also went tour leading to Bali with gerri...was a nice experience...

Bali is really a nice place to be at...wonderful beaches...nice shopping...fantastic place...i muz bring my darling there one day...!
then it was our wedding dinner...most of my friends turned up...really enjoy the night!!!
lotsa well-wishes...lotsa fun...lotsa food and booze...

that really explains why darling had to go to the washroom a few times before heading home...had to sit outside the house with him for almost an hour before he recovered to go inside the house...had to change for him as he was dead drunk and couldnt change out of his clothes...
then the amkss friends...i heard yirong and june yi had to wash car...cos some of them puked in it...
but anyway...it was still a great deal of fun...
then started all the routine check-ups at the hospital with darling accompanying me for almost every single one of it...
saw baby for the first time...i can still remember the excitement...
and i still remember the joy on darling's face...when he first felt baby's kickings...
still remember a month ago...when i called him at the hospital...his worried look when he arrived...
not to mention...i also received my excellence service award this year!! exciting sia...

and finally...at company's annual xmas party...i won a major prize!!!
it was the 5/6th prize (cos it was the same prize)...an SQ return air-ticket to Hong Kong!!!
omg...i think its the first time i've won such a grand prize...

it must be a good way to end off the year for me...

stepping into the first few days of 2007...
it seems like nothing much has changed...
we're all still the same...
but i knw that there are really a lot a lot of things that are going to be different this year...
we're expecting baby in less than 2 weeks...
this isnt going to be easy...but i knw we can just manage it well...

will be resuming work just before the march natas fair...
i dont knw how i'm going to cope...but i guess i'll work sth out...

will be resuming my tour leading duties sometime soon after i return to work...
at that time...baby will be only 3-4 months old...
i really dont know if i will bear to leave my child...even for only 3 days...
but i guess...i'll work something out...

anyway...a lot a lot...super lots of uncertainties ahead...
but i guess that's just life...
so i just hope...
everything will be better for the year ahead...
not just for me...but for ALL that are around me!!!

Happy NEw YeaR!!!

!~ho ho ho~!

ho ho ho...merry x'mas to all!!!
its xmas eve today ok...and i juz came back from lunch...haha...
yearend is always a joyous festive season...
and of all the festivals....i love x'mas the most!!!
although it means burning a big big hole in my pockets buying presents...BOO~
nonetheless...its still great fun!!
getting together with friends...blah blah blah~

anyway...past few days have been great fun too!!
first it was xmas party in office...
we were all busy exchanging presents...having fun...
and the lucky draw muz be the "highlight" of the day!!
and i won an air-ticket to Hong Kong on SQ!!
omg...lucky me right?!?! haha...couldnt believe it...heez...=)
then gerri's sis gave birth to a big cute chubby sumo wrestler baby...haha...
so super duper cute!!
juz looking at the pictures makes my day...

then went to see Yatie and her baby ytd afternoon...
she's doing great.......and her baby tooo!!!
heez...

then we proceeded to The Cathay...wanted to catch the 5+ show...
that Jay Chow movie...
then can go for dinner at PS 7+...haha...
what a perfect arrangement right...
then wont go home too late also ma...
but hoh...stupid me...
forgot to book tickets first...
then when we reached...sold out liaoz...
haiz~ had to settle for 6.10pm show...
then the show finished 8+...no mood for dinner liaoz...
no appetite also...
haha

well...the show...i personally feel that its not really very nice la...
not as nice as all the reviews made it to be...
well...its may be a really expensive movie...
but storyline...quite weak...
erm...jay's acting...not that fantastic...
gong li was good...
but chow yun fatt could have done better too...
overall...it could have been much better i guess...
but i really like the 菊花台 song...
suits the show perfectly!!!

walked down orchard road...
so nice...
all the lightings and the atmosphere...was very very good!!
wanted to buy more xmas presents...
for more friends..
darling told me not to bother buying for his brothers...
haha...so ok lo...no pressies for them!
then...erm...wrapping the night up...nothing much done...

now...let me go sleep ba...
i'm becoming more and more like a pig! haha...

back at work

haha...after resting at home for 2 weeks...
i'm back in office!
woohoo...hahaha...
its like...finally ar...finally i can get out of home...haha...

well...there's been some unhappiness with dearz these 2 weeks...
was so angry with him...
but we managed to get things solved...
well...some really stupid and trivial matters la...
not worth mentioning about also...

actually i should really thank God for giving me my darling...
he's always been there for me...
even when we were going thru bad bad times...
even when i have my mood swings...
even when i was throwing tantrums...
even when i was juz doing stupid things for attention...
hahaha...yah yah yah...i'm childish...
and i'm behaving like a child...
but so what...i guess wat's important is that u have someone there who's always willing to accommodate you...=)

after 6 weeks...dusk is back in singapore...
they went boat quay last week...but i had to give it a miss...
cos darling didnt want me to go those places now...
then last night...they met out for dinner and mj...
i also had no part in it...
cos darling say i have to work today...and shld sleep early...
hmmm...actually is i say i dont wanna go la...
i actually feel bad lo...
he's always at home...accompanying me...
but i think he should have his own time with his friends...
doing his own things also ma...
so i decided i'll stay at home and sleep early...
haha...
then i really sleep early lehz...i slept at about midnight...
but then...i woke up real early too!
before his mj game was over...
i woke up and started sms-ing him to ka jiao his game...
hahahhaa...

then hoh...back at work now...
everything seems so 陌生 to me...
like dunno what to do lidat...
how to pick up the pieces...
omg...
then today afternoon i'm on leave again...
then back for the rest of the week...
then next week is clear leave clear leave clear leave again...
haha...

a new maid

hohoho...
before xmas is here...my new maid is here...haha...
well...she's from indonesia...
and supposedly experienced in jakarta...
but she still seems a bit slow to me...
i guess this is part of the cultural differences that i have to adjust to...
anyway...my mom-in-law took leave today to ask her to do some chores...
so here i am...blogging...hahahaha

it will be my turn tml...
omg...cant imagine me...myself telling her to do things...
then i sit around and watch tv...omg...
that certainly sounds bad...
anyway...its saturday tml...
so everybody shld be at home rite...haha...

for your information...
she's nvr been to singapore...cant speak english...or mandarin...or any other dialects.......
haha...so being the GOOD gal...employer...wadever...
i went to the library juz now to borrow some books to learn malay...
haha...so that i can converse with her...
think about it...
i think for the next 3 months...
yes...including my confinement months...
i'll be seeing her the most...
cos she's gonna accompany me back to my mom's place for confinement...
now when i'm still on leave...she's at home everyday...
and in the next few weeks when i'm clearing leave....
she is also at home...

haha...anyway...enough talking about her...
i went causeway point with jolene ytd...hahahaa....and had sakae sushi buffet high tea...
hahhaa....
so nice....niceyyy!!!
collected my hp too...
and bought somemore stuffs for baby...courtesy of jolene...
but i'm still puzzled....
HOW DID SHE MANAGE TO GET HER CREDIT CARD!!!!
i've been working for a longer time ok...
hmmm...
shall ponder on it seriously when i'm free...haha....

then went to meet wing at northpoint...
had some more ice-cream...
cos neither of us had appetite for dinner...
anyway...shocking news yet again...
although quite predictable already...
but still...
anyway...i hope for all the best to her...
and that she will solve her problem amicably!

back!

haha...thanks to all my friends...
for all your smses and calls...
i'm all well n good now...baby too!
i've discharged from hospital yesteday...
now on leave to stay in bed...
so feel free to call me and/or come over to keep me accompany ok...
heeez...
i'll be sooo bored these few days being alone at home...

scary morning

omg...bad scare early in the morning...
committed wrong flight to a passenger...
lucky she was kind enough not to pursue the matter...
and accepted my explanation...
~phew~
it was really nice of her...
if not...she's already in Japan now...
wouldnt know what to do otherwise!

*happy*

this is a happy post...
haha...
its the 100th entry for my blog...
i've just received another letter of compliment from my client...
haha...

its the lady from NUS...
after giving me only 1 wk to work on her group booking...
and almost scaring me to death with her baggage allowances and robotics stuffs...
she and her group...has finally come back safely from Cairo...
and all of them were safe...
the trip was smooth...
the arrangements were good...
i'm soooo glad...

now i'm beginning to like my job more and more...
cos finally my hard work has paid off...
haha...
i'm sooo happy!
i'm one big happy gal today...
although i'm still in office working...at this hour....heez...=)

wat's happening...?

haha...well...nothing much to blog about...
boring office life...
boring life...

friends' lives seem very interesting lately though...
everybody seems to be in debts...
seems to have to lend money to everybody...
everybody seems to be changing boyfriends...
hahaha...

wat's happening to this world???

new blogskin

haha...got a new blog skin again...haha...
quite fun ar...
but dunno why...somethings seems to be very very wrong with my tagboard...

anyway...its tue again...
gotta go hospital later...
anyway...its fun...
and i think next lesson more fun...haha...
got video to watch...haha...

went for dinner with brenda and friend last nite...
had nice nice ajisen ramen...
had bubble tea
bought a nice nice dress
haha...
and all these...
didnt blow my budget...haha...
cos i juz got my pay!! hahahaaha....*happy*
i'm one big happy gal....

but hoh...u muz be wondering how come i'm suddenly in a shopping mood...
cos darling did something terribly wrong to make me real angry!!!
that's y i thot of a super stupid and mean way to make fun of him...
but it didnt work lehz...
i was "xin ruan" at the last minute...

am looking forward to sunday...
cos if darling agrees...we can go JB with brenda and friend!!
hahaha...
its been ages and months since i last travelled...
omg...
its so unlike of me...
to be stucked in Singapore for so many months...
erm...when was the last time i travelled...
doesnt seem very long also...
shld be august ba...when i went bali for tour leading with gerri...
but why does it seem such a long time....

hmmm...i knw why...
cos i juz missed 2 TWO opportunities to go to TWO different places i havent been to...
Hokkaido AND Korea...
both places i've been wanting to...but no chance to visit...
haiz~ hope for next year ba...*sadz*

...shopping time...

wooo....its nearing...
which means that my baby is arriving soon...
haha...so it means shopping time for me n dar dar...
been going out shopping pretty much...
so happy...its a joy...to be spending...for your loved ones...

i also finished watching my first Korean drama series ever...
haha...
Princess Hours
super nice!!!
changed my view of Korean shows...
so funny and sweet...
hopefully the 2nd one will be good too...

*worried*

haiz~ went for checkup ytd...
no good no good...
there's too much protein in my body...
which according to the doctor...
there's some infection in my body...
but she also nvr elaborate...
then sent me for more tests liaoz...
merely threw down a statement "will let you know the outcome in one week"
haiz~
juz gotta wait for the outcome lo...

then spent the day at k-box with wing before class last evening...

quite a boring day i muz say...
but well...still fun la...
haha...cos i simply MISSS Ktv...!