!~ho ho ho~!

ho ho ho...merry x'mas to all!!!
its xmas eve today ok...and i juz came back from lunch...haha...
yearend is always a joyous festive season...
and of all the festivals....i love x'mas the most!!!
although it means burning a big big hole in my pockets buying presents...BOO~
nonetheless...its still great fun!!
getting together with friends...blah blah blah~

anyway...past few days have been great fun too!!
first it was xmas party in office...
we were all busy exchanging presents...having fun...
and the lucky draw muz be the "highlight" of the day!!
and i won an air-ticket to Hong Kong on SQ!!
omg...lucky me right?!?! haha...couldnt believe it...heez...=)
then gerri's sis gave birth to a big cute chubby sumo wrestler baby...haha...
so super duper cute!!
juz looking at the pictures makes my day...

then went to see Yatie and her baby ytd afternoon...
she's doing great.......and her baby tooo!!!
heez...

then we proceeded to The Cathay...wanted to catch the 5+ show...
that Jay Chow movie...
then can go for dinner at PS 7+...haha...
what a perfect arrangement right...
then wont go home too late also ma...
but hoh...stupid me...
forgot to book tickets first...
then when we reached...sold out liaoz...
haiz~ had to settle for 6.10pm show...
then the show finished 8+...no mood for dinner liaoz...
no appetite also...
haha

well...the show...i personally feel that its not really very nice la...
not as nice as all the reviews made it to be...
well...its may be a really expensive movie...
but storyline...quite weak...
erm...jay's acting...not that fantastic...
gong li was good...
but chow yun fatt could have done better too...
overall...it could have been much better i guess...
but i really like the 菊花台 song...
suits the show perfectly!!!

walked down orchard road...
so nice...
all the lightings and the atmosphere...was very very good!!
wanted to buy more xmas presents...
for more friends..
darling told me not to bother buying for his brothers...
haha...so ok lo...no pressies for them!
then...erm...wrapping the night up...nothing much done...

now...let me go sleep ba...
i'm becoming more and more like a pig! haha...

back at work

haha...after resting at home for 2 weeks...
i'm back in office!
woohoo...hahaha...
its like...finally ar...finally i can get out of home...haha...

well...there's been some unhappiness with dearz these 2 weeks...
was so angry with him...
but we managed to get things solved...
well...some really stupid and trivial matters la...
not worth mentioning about also...

actually i should really thank God for giving me my darling...
he's always been there for me...
even when we were going thru bad bad times...
even when i have my mood swings...
even when i was throwing tantrums...
even when i was juz doing stupid things for attention...
hahaha...yah yah yah...i'm childish...
and i'm behaving like a child...
but so what...i guess wat's important is that u have someone there who's always willing to accommodate you...=)

after 6 weeks...dusk is back in singapore...
they went boat quay last week...but i had to give it a miss...
cos darling didnt want me to go those places now...
then last night...they met out for dinner and mj...
i also had no part in it...
cos darling say i have to work today...and shld sleep early...
hmmm...actually is i say i dont wanna go la...
i actually feel bad lo...
he's always at home...accompanying me...
but i think he should have his own time with his friends...
doing his own things also ma...
so i decided i'll stay at home and sleep early...
haha...
then i really sleep early lehz...i slept at about midnight...
but then...i woke up real early too!
before his mj game was over...
i woke up and started sms-ing him to ka jiao his game...
hahahhaa...

then hoh...back at work now...
everything seems so 陌生 to me...
like dunno what to do lidat...
how to pick up the pieces...
omg...
then today afternoon i'm on leave again...
then back for the rest of the week...
then next week is clear leave clear leave clear leave again...
haha...

a new maid

hohoho...
before xmas is here...my new maid is here...haha...
well...she's from indonesia...
and supposedly experienced in jakarta...
but she still seems a bit slow to me...
i guess this is part of the cultural differences that i have to adjust to...
anyway...my mom-in-law took leave today to ask her to do some chores...
so here i am...blogging...hahahaha

it will be my turn tml...
omg...cant imagine me...myself telling her to do things...
then i sit around and watch tv...omg...
that certainly sounds bad...
anyway...its saturday tml...
so everybody shld be at home rite...haha...

for your information...
she's nvr been to singapore...cant speak english...or mandarin...or any other dialects.......
haha...so being the GOOD gal...employer...wadever...
i went to the library juz now to borrow some books to learn malay...
haha...so that i can converse with her...
think about it...
i think for the next 3 months...
yes...including my confinement months...
i'll be seeing her the most...
cos she's gonna accompany me back to my mom's place for confinement...
now when i'm still on leave...she's at home everyday...
and in the next few weeks when i'm clearing leave....
she is also at home...

haha...anyway...enough talking about her...
i went causeway point with jolene ytd...hahahaa....and had sakae sushi buffet high tea...
hahhaa....
so nice....niceyyy!!!
collected my hp too...
and bought somemore stuffs for baby...courtesy of jolene...
but i'm still puzzled....
HOW DID SHE MANAGE TO GET HER CREDIT CARD!!!!
i've been working for a longer time ok...
hmmm...
shall ponder on it seriously when i'm free...haha....

then went to meet wing at northpoint...
had some more ice-cream...
cos neither of us had appetite for dinner...
anyway...shocking news yet again...
although quite predictable already...
but still...
anyway...i hope for all the best to her...
and that she will solve her problem amicably!

back!

haha...thanks to all my friends...
for all your smses and calls...
i'm all well n good now...baby too!
i've discharged from hospital yesteday...
now on leave to stay in bed...
so feel free to call me and/or come over to keep me accompany ok...
heeez...
i'll be sooo bored these few days being alone at home...

scary morning

omg...bad scare early in the morning...
committed wrong flight to a passenger...
lucky she was kind enough not to pursue the matter...
and accepted my explanation...
~phew~
it was really nice of her...
if not...she's already in Japan now...
wouldnt know what to do otherwise!

*happy*

this is a happy post...
haha...
its the 100th entry for my blog...
i've just received another letter of compliment from my client...
haha...

its the lady from NUS...
after giving me only 1 wk to work on her group booking...
and almost scaring me to death with her baggage allowances and robotics stuffs...
she and her group...has finally come back safely from Cairo...
and all of them were safe...
the trip was smooth...
the arrangements were good...
i'm soooo glad...

now i'm beginning to like my job more and more...
cos finally my hard work has paid off...
haha...
i'm sooo happy!
i'm one big happy gal today...
although i'm still in office working...at this hour....heez...=)

wat's happening...?

haha...well...nothing much to blog about...
boring office life...
boring life...

friends' lives seem very interesting lately though...
everybody seems to be in debts...
seems to have to lend money to everybody...
everybody seems to be changing boyfriends...
hahaha...

wat's happening to this world???

new blogskin

haha...got a new blog skin again...haha...
quite fun ar...
but dunno why...somethings seems to be very very wrong with my tagboard...

anyway...its tue again...
gotta go hospital later...
anyway...its fun...
and i think next lesson more fun...haha...
got video to watch...haha...

went for dinner with brenda and friend last nite...
had nice nice ajisen ramen...
had bubble tea
bought a nice nice dress
haha...
and all these...
didnt blow my budget...haha...
cos i juz got my pay!! hahahaaha....*happy*
i'm one big happy gal....

but hoh...u muz be wondering how come i'm suddenly in a shopping mood...
cos darling did something terribly wrong to make me real angry!!!
that's y i thot of a super stupid and mean way to make fun of him...
but it didnt work lehz...
i was "xin ruan" at the last minute...

am looking forward to sunday...
cos if darling agrees...we can go JB with brenda and friend!!
hahaha...
its been ages and months since i last travelled...
omg...
its so unlike of me...
to be stucked in Singapore for so many months...
erm...when was the last time i travelled...
doesnt seem very long also...
shld be august ba...when i went bali for tour leading with gerri...
but why does it seem such a long time....

hmmm...i knw why...
cos i juz missed 2 TWO opportunities to go to TWO different places i havent been to...
Hokkaido AND Korea...
both places i've been wanting to...but no chance to visit...
haiz~ hope for next year ba...*sadz*

...shopping time...

wooo....its nearing...
which means that my baby is arriving soon...
haha...so it means shopping time for me n dar dar...
been going out shopping pretty much...
so happy...its a joy...to be spending...for your loved ones...

i also finished watching my first Korean drama series ever...
haha...
Princess Hours
super nice!!!
changed my view of Korean shows...
so funny and sweet...
hopefully the 2nd one will be good too...

*worried*

haiz~ went for checkup ytd...
no good no good...
there's too much protein in my body...
which according to the doctor...
there's some infection in my body...
but she also nvr elaborate...
then sent me for more tests liaoz...
merely threw down a statement "will let you know the outcome in one week"
haiz~
juz gotta wait for the outcome lo...

then spent the day at k-box with wing before class last evening...

quite a boring day i muz say...
but well...still fun la...
haha...cos i simply MISSS Ktv...!

pissed

cant imagine it...after almost a month of not blogging...
the first blog that i'm posting today is a blog to complain!!!
omg...
why have i become lidat?!
i'm beginning to dislike myself...
WTF!!!! #$^%&*%&^$^
after being away from office last thursday and friday and the weekend...
it was the first day i'm back in office...
and the first thing in the morning...
i'm told i have an "attitude problem"
i'm not taking this good...this is really insulting..
i dont like the way people say things about me which i dont feel the least this way at all!
if there is a problem with me...come straight up to me and tell me!
dont need to do this kinda thing...
anyway...nvm...i think i'll get over it tml...haha...

its been soooo long since i've blogged...
so many things that i havent blogged about
so many pictures i havent uploaded...
haha...



well...actually nothing very much happened in the past month also...
went for 2 birthday bashes...
started my antenatal class...
been taking a lot more leaves than before...
and being a good gal resting at home a lot of times...

went for Winnie & bf's b-dae bash on deepavali day - 21 oct...
all was well...
there were quite a number of people...
but then most we dont know one...
mostly are her relatives...
only a handful of us were sec friends...
quite a nice party nonetheless...

here's one of the pictures i took with the birthday gal!

then also went for june yi's birthday on the 4th nov...
at downtown east...
a lot of AMK people...
and her relatives...

then also started my antenatal classes...
not quite fun la...
but still...muz go la...
muz take some classes for the sake of my baby la...
hahaha...

supposed to have another birthday bash on sat this week...
but i dont think i can make it already...
haiz~ juz gotta give it a miss...

okok...that shld be all for now...
gotta finish lunch soon...
and get back to work...haiz~

back from tiring morning...

haha...i'm finally back in office...
for a proper day of work...
now i'm so tired...headache too...
cos i woke up at about 5am...
to go airport for group check-in...
haiz~ tired...
luckily the checkin was smooth and easy...
it wasnt difficult to handle the group...

went to burger king for breakfast this morning
while waiting for the arrival of the travelers...

haha...had a satisfying breakfast...
then went to mini toons to buy some stickers for my handphones...
haha...
so fun!! gonna play with them tonitez...

then went to a company to do some presentation...
and hopefully get the group...
but i guess...the chances are no good...
cos hoh...
they dun seem the least interested...
they also told me another agency had quoted them much lower...
so hoh...think 凶多吉少 already...

not to forget...we went to hospital for baby checkup yesterday also...
haha...went for scan...
so fun...baby grow so much already la...
then hoh...created a stupid funny joke...
made darling and the doctor laughed their guts out...haha...
so fun...=)

haha...then finally i have uploaded the pictures...
of my department dinner last week...haha
here are some...
i didnt use picasa wor...its all directly from my hp...heez

my colleagues...all except me...*sob-sob*

papa n mama...the rumoured couple...haha...=)


food for the nite...juz some of them...its really nice...

chawanmushi!! really smooth and nice...

this is the really delicious cuttlefish...haha...
you can also call it SOTONG...haha...


some faces of the diners...

another week has passed

haha...this week...did quite a few things...

on tuesday...10 Oct...i went down to OCBC to do my first group briefing...
luckily...gerri and kim were there...
gerri actually did the presentation for me...haha...
which was a lucky thing...cos i've nvr done or seen an incentive trip briefing yet...
kim was there cos she is the tour leader for my group...
then after that...i went to buy don's pie with gerri...haha...
bought some chicken pie and cheesecake and chocolate cakes for darling and family...

then 11 oct...we went to IP Kaiho's for dinner as a department...haha...
it was great fun...and i took quite a bit of pictures...
hasnt had the time to upload them yet...shall post them here some other time...

then talk about my angry weekend...
friday...i was ready to leave office promptly at 6 30...
then 5+...darling called...and say that he cant leave...
gotta go for some mass thingy...
so nvm lo...stayed on at office for a while...
then went over to suntec walk walk...

nvm...
then came sat...
slept soundly...nice slp...
woke up at 11am...~wooh~
long time nvr slp till so late already...
then darling called to say he cant meet...
then he DUA me until 2+...
then i angry lo...quarrelled...
and went out myself...lucky wing wing came accompany me...
then when he finally can book out already...
i so angry with him i told him dun come meet me already...

he dont care about me lo...
when i called him to tell him i burnt my hand he also like hack care lidat!
continue to talk to his "specs"
so angry...

haha...but i wasnt weak also...haha
i went to audio house sales...and bought a new digicam for my parents...hahaha~!~!
but stupid...nvr ask him pay also lo...i pay myself...
but nvm...haha...
i still can afford...

then luckily i go home that time i not angry already...haha
if not he can go slp in living room ar...
(*i think he'll like it also lo...think sat nite got soccer match!!! eeks...*)

haha...then sunday...he's at my mercy lo...
so morning went back to my place to drink soup...
teach my mama how to use new camera...
then we went to watch camera...but hoh...its the show that he likes lehz...
erm...The Departed...

well...this show is ok la...only ok only...haha...
i still feel that the chinese one was much better...
better paced...and more thrilling...

then today at work...still relatively ok la...
not very busy...still getting by...
haha...
okok...time to go home...
another time then blog la...haha...

relaxing weekend

~...phew...~
what a nice weekend i had...
although i had to work in the morning on sat...
darling came to pick me from work...
then we went Scotts for Ajisen...heez...
i love it...i always love ajisen...haha...
then we went shopping ard Orchard...
haha...shopped for about 3 hours only...
and darling is already so tired and drained...
so hoh...haiz~ went to Taka and got him a pair of shoes...to brighten him up...
haha..then i got my Loreal foundation...
haha...the box also so nice...
then the color so blend into my skin color...haha...
can start putting make-up to work already...haha...

alamak...then ytd went to Face Shop and saw a liquid foundation
that i so love as well...
so light and easy to apply...
blends quite well into my skin color as well!!
i wanna buy that as well...
hmmm...maybe i shall get that too...! haha...

slacked ard...walk walk here and there...haha...
quite fun la...
nice weekend...
relaxing time with darling...

time for a breather...

wow...finally after wat seems like forever...
i'm getting a rest...things in office have finally slowed down in pace...
i finally can go home early after work to rest...slp...and to settle my own stuffs...

the wedding had been great...! below are some of the photos taken that nite...







Special thanks to all who took time off to attend our wedding dinner...
it was a wonderful and special nite for both me and kelvin...
there were a few times i nearly wanted to cry...

although the whole wedding preparations were tiring...and tedious...
i guess...looking at the dinner turning out well...
when all your guests enjoyed themselves...
it makes all worthwhile...

a lot of friends told me that the dinner was grand...
my only pity was that i didnt have time to take pictures with every table...
there were 65 tables in total ok!!!
considering some table had more than 10...
we had more than 650 guests...!

sorry to my friends who had to sit in that room too...
i really am sorry...i didnt knw it wasnt part of the main hall...
we thot that it was the passageway separating...i'm really sorry...
i hope you guys had enjoyed the dinner and the food nonetheless!!!

also muz thank kelvin's army friends...
who specially took time off to come over to attend the wedding dinner...

well...and i guess some of you muz have known...
kelvin was dead drunk that nitez...omg...
before we left the restaurant...he was puking...
when we were on the car not even out of the carpark...he was puking...
when we reach home...he was still outside the house puking...!
omg...i guess all he could remember of the nite muz be his vomits!!!
hahaha...stupid me...forgot to take a photo of him in his ugliest..
sure can extort a great deal of things from him one!!!

then after the wedding...havent even got time to settle in marriage life...
gotta come back to office and prepare for natas fair...
omg...things were still as unprepared and unready as the previous fair...
we had to work thru the nights...going home in the wee hours...

not to mention also...we were severely lacking of staffs...
apparently...the SP interns this yr...cannot take all these late nitez...
complaint to the lecturers that we're abusing them...
and are now taken out of the company...
so...we're down by 2...

then...the new China lady...also not used to it...(my colleagues told me one...)
and starting to act weirdly in the middle of the nights...
so she always leave early also...

that leaves the preparations to only the 4 in counter...
and the rest of us at the back...

the Natas fair is held at Expo this yr...
it took me 1.5 hrs to travel on train to the fair site...
so...for the 3 whole days...i met Kim at Khatib and we took cabs...
both ways...to and fro...
hahaha...
cannot tahan ar...already not enough slp...still muz take train so long...
will die one u know!!!

finally...we came back...dun think we hit the target...
but still...it was a better fair than the previous...
and after these 2 long weeks...
things are finally going at normal pace...

now...i'm only busy with my Perth grp...departing on the 19 Oct...
i'd wanted to lead the group myself...
but then...cannot fly anymore...so...let Kim lead for me...
the pre-tour briefing is on tue evening...
i've already got the booklet and powerpoint ready...
so juz gotta print the booklets out on mon...and staple them...
and muz remember to bring my Diners bags...
and the booklets...
and the freebies from WA...
and a few travel adaptors for them...
that shld be all ba...

pls pray for me ok...my first pre-tour briefing...for my first group...

wedding gowns...

whoa...finally managed to settle my gowns...
was so worried when last week...
the people from the shop called me to tell me that all my gowns...
I CANT WEAR THEM!!!
omg...i nearly asthma attack + heart attack + eveything attack together ar...

haha...but anyway...luckily...i managed to get them settled
hahaha
mama went to the shop with me today...
and we re-chose the gowns...
though the bridal gown is not as nice as the original one....
but its really sweet...
haha...but i shall not post the photo here yet...
next week ba...next week after the dinner...then post here...haha!!!

the evening gown is more elaborate though...
its not a common color...and definitely not a color that i normally wear...
its GREEN!! but its cute...really really cute...haha...

now the gowns are hanging in my room....
nicely waiting for me to wear them on saturday...
haha...

the banquet..

for the first time in the past many many months...
i finally had time to catch a movie with kelvin...on my insistence...
hahahahaa....i wanted to watch The Banquet...
really really want to watch it...
i guess it muz have been due to the controversials it has caused...
well...this is one of the many posters for this show...
i feel that this is one of the nicer ones...

well...this show has brought a lot of thoughts to me...
was the emperor a good one or an evil one...?
did he usurp the throne for love??

was empress wan evil??
did she do everything out of love for Prince Wu Luan as well????

what about the most innocent (i felt) gal - Qing Nuu???
she was soooo in love with Prince Wu Luan...
but did he ever love her back???

a lot of questions...many more...
but then...i dont have time to think about other people's love story...
haha...i'll have to concentrate on building the perfect love story for myself...

counting down...6 days

wow...this countdown is getting nearer...
omg...cant believe it...in less than a week...
i'm getting really excited and nervous...
at the same time...there seems to be soooo much more things left undone...unfinished...
well...but i dont care...haha...
i'm sure we'll get everything sorted out by sat...

haha...one weird thingy...
i brought my wedding photos album to office on friday...
all of them likes this picture soooo much...
dunno why...they say we're both very cute on this picture...
let's see it...

isnt this cute...haha...i like this as well...

haha...okok...that's all for now...upload somemore another day ba...
i wanna go watch my tv serial already!

wedding photos!!

haha...we got back our wedding photos already...
omg!! i love all of them soooo much...
but since i have a super long day ahead tomorrow...
i think i'd better go to bed now...
haha...
so here is juz a collage of some of the photos...
next time got time then slowly upload these photos.!!

nitez nitez...

nervous...

...~~woo~~...
9 more days to go...
today onwards...i'm spending less and less time in office...
today and tomorrow half day afternoon off...
then next wed onwards...i'll be off for one week for my wedding...

haha...today will be a long long day for me...
after work...gotta go taka get some shirts for kelvin..
not to forget...i'm meeting lingzi at taka too...can do some catching up...
and then perhaps some shopping as well..
heez...looking forward sia~
then gotta bring lingzi to my new place...
to get the wedding invitations for her...and lynn...and stella...
then probably can show her my new room...haha...
so nice!!!
then gotta go back to my place...burn the cd...
for testing at the restaurant tomorrow...
then tonite go collect my wedding photos!!
hahahaa...sooooo exciting...(oops...excited i mean...hahahaha)

wish me luck in my coordination in my time ok...haha
that's quite a lot of things to be done in one day ok!~!!

well...finally the weekend's over...haha
it has been a really tiring week...
and more tiring weeks to come...
i juz realised that my nights are all packed...
i dun even have time to rest and sleep properly...omg...

went out on sat evening with winnie, HL and yaoguang...
were at bishan crystal jade for dinner...

then we saw siang siong at mrt station after dinner...
haha...
actually...qingbin was celebrating his birthday that nite!
haiz~ i also wanna go...but then hoh...
go also dunno for wat...
cannot drink...cannot stay too late...
somemore can predict the amount of smoke i will inhale into...
so hoh...better dun go la...
then for once...i was a good gal and skipped pubbing...
went home early to pack my room...
hahaha...

then ytd...stupid kelvin...hmmmm!
he couldnt wake up...
and came late...so i was waiting and waiting and waiting...
nvr eat breakfast...
hmmm....angry!
actually not very angry also la...more hungry ba...haha...

then soooo tired ytd...
got the buffet thingy...
lucky until 8+ only...
by 9pm...almost everybody left liaoz...
then we started packing lo...
haha...
went to bed 11+...

cant wake up for work ar!!! then my father-in-law thot i dun need to work today...
haha...funny hoh...
today darling cannot come home tonite...
so i going to "hui niang jia" lo...
haha...threatened kelvin...
say i wan to go home cry...so he no good to me...haha...
he NOT scared lehz...omg...
think i dun dare rite...haha...
wait i go home cry to my mom...let u get scolded...hahahhaa!!

counting down...14days

woohoo...its been such a long time since i last blogged...
getting more and more excited...
my wedding's in about 2 weeks...
tomorrow got the "guo da li" thingy...
omg...so busy...
all my things haven buy finish...
later after work still gotta go finish up on my shopping...
muz go buy things like bedsheet...quilt covers...etc itsy bitsy things...

and i think i forgot to mention that i was in bali about 2 weeks ago?? end august...
it was pretty fun...
had fun dressing up as indians...
hahaha...

then the wedding dinner will be on the 23 sept...
counting down 14 days (2 weeks) exactly from today...haha...

wedding!!!

haha...so happy and sad at the same time...
but i guess the happiness will sink in deeper than my sadness

y saD??
cos i've been feeling so terrible for the past week...
before i went to bali already had stomach upset...
then today...WORSE of all!!!
omg...juz this morning in about 2 hrs already go toilet 5 times...
i thot i will juz move my desk to the toilet...hahaha

but anyway...
i took mc and resting at home now...
so super xinku
tml dunno can recover anot...

haha...but one good good piece of news...
my wedding invitations are ready!!!
i juz have to write in all the names...
then i can start distributing!! haha...
hooray!!!
so friends who are invited...
u should be receiving my calls pretty soon...

tour leading assignment

well...in office now...finishing up on the last minute stuffs...
flying off to Bali later today...
i guess...this will be my last tour leading assignment in the next yr...?

anyway...wish me luck...
and enjoy my trip!

bad bad experience at MAX BRENNER

well...its National Day round the corner again...
as usual...the Singapore Fireworks Festival is here too!
was looking forward to the first display last saturday on the 05th aug...

went to work as usual...
the day had been same...
nothing much special...
was bored...kelvin gotta stay home for the day...
so asked wing go orchard for some shopping time...
bought my moisturisers for both day and night
cos Metro was having storewide 20% sale...hahaha...
but she bought even more!!!
omg...juz look at the bags of things that she bought...

met kelvin at scotts for dinner...then marvin came over to join us...
after dinner...we took a cab and went over to esplanade to see the fireworks display...
we got a pretty good view...cos we were on the esplanade bridge...haha...
but then...very very squeezy...
the wind was a good thing...cos it made the situation less stuffy...

guess i was too excited over the fireworks...
i was literally jumping non-stop...and screaming "wah...wah...WAH..."
hahha...kelvin muz have been soooo embarassed...
i guess so...and baby didnt like it too...haha
cos after fireworks i had this super actue pain in my stomach...
u shld have seen the worried look on kelvin's face...

anyway...all 4 of us went to esplanade after that...
cos i wanted chocolate fondue...
and the nearest place i remembered that served that was Max Brenner...

omg...wat a bad decision that muz have been...
the ridiculous queue not to mention...
and the rude service that i seriously dun think we deserved!
the service staffs were crowded together chit-chatting...
(or at least they look so even if they werent...)
when people were impatiently queueing outside...
the food was not served diligently...
guests are kept waiting outside AND inside the restaurant...

worse was...darling was ordering from the menu...
nowhere in the menu, restaurant or anywhere else was anything stating that certain foods are seasonal and/or subjected to availability!!
after me n wing ordered our fondue...darling ordered his food...
3 times, 3 different items he ordered...he had a rude "no more" answer...
WTF!!! i was like...what kinda restaurant or even a cafe is this?!
they're not exactly cheap...and obviously people expect SERVICE for the price they charge...
they're located in an arts centre...and u shld keep up to your name!!!

food was served ridiculously slow...
and i was like rattling on and on and on to darling and my friends...
CAN WE JUST LEAVE THIS PLACE!!!
i'd rather go somewhere else for ice-cream...

even when we called for the bill...it took ages to come!!
SHIT them lo...got time to chit-chat...no time to bring bill over...
nvm...then i gave $50 note for $30+ bill...not very exaggerating rite...
not like i gave them a $1000 bill or something...
wah...they tell me they no change lehz...
i nearly wanted to strangle them...
then best lo...give me i think $6+ $7 worth of coins lehz...
can u imagine...it wasnt even like near closing time ok...
how can they run out of change...
if that's an excuse...that's a ROTTEN one...

i seriously think people out there...shld think twice before going there again...
unless their service standards improve...
i think its doom time for them...

anyway...stupid me forgot to take the receipt when i left the place...
if not...i sure go CASE complain about their service de...

lucky for the restaurant...they dun have a webby or a contact email add...
if not...this entry will be posted there instead!!!

jolene's 21st birthday bash

well...a couple of weeks ago...
went for jolene's 21st birthday bash...
it was held @ pasir ris downtown east...
below are some photos i managed to "steal" from friends...


after the birthday bash...
we were supposed to go Boat Quay for World Cup match de...
but then hoh...think we were too late that night...
all the pubs with tv were already full house...
so we went to WOW club...
sit..drink..chit-chat...
but i was getting very very bored...
cos no alcohol for me...that also meant no games for me...
then we left early...
in fact very early...
even before dusk n kin came over we left le...hahaha...

happy married life...

haha...darling is jealous le...
i'm pretty...
but i nvr mention about my handsome hubby...hahaha...
sorry ma...darling...dun angry ok...haha..
anyway... i knw u're not angry with me le la...
that was juz a joke rite...hahaha...

if i'm pretty princess then u muz be the handsome prince ma...
that's understood de...dun need me to say one...hahaha...!

erm...still havent taken our outdoor photos yet...
cos the photographer sprained her leg...
so its been rescheduled to this sat...! which means...2 days from now...
hahaha...more photos for me n darling...

well..one of the most frequently asked questions muz be
"so how's married life like"
hahaha...i muz say...its fulfilling...and happy...
now i've got more "brothers" cos kelvin has 2 brothers...
and i've got much much more relatives than i can ever imagine...

i'm still learning to adapt...
living with in-laws is something i muz really get used to...
and i also need time to realise that i've got much much more relatives and cousins now...

but well...the good side is...
i've also got many many more people doting on me now!!

and darling has been sweet and doting...
he always picks me up from work whenever he can...
coax me to slp first...
give me a good morning kiss before he leaves for work...
and also not to forget the talks to "baby" every night...

but well...i've been sick this week...
everyday also dun feel well...
everyday also dun wanna go work...
finally today mc liaoz lo...
hahaha...
*sadz* *pout*
tonite darling cant book out...
so nvm la...i came back to my home...haha
packed my room...and updated friendster...
did some stuffs...and slacked the whole day!!

wedding photo (1) - indoor shoot

haha...i went for our wedding photo shoot today...
although weather wasn't good today...
it didnt spoil my mood at all!! haha
was still very very excited about the shoot..
and the whole thing...haha

here are some pretty photos of mine..!

me in my evening gown...


me and darling in my evening gown look...

hahaha...sooo happy today...
the make-up artist and the photographer both say i look pretty
hahaha...they say my features very sharp...
and i'm very photogenic....
hahaha...
then they dolled me up very prettily wor ...


my traditional costume lo...
i feel i look quite special la...
but then hoh...henry say i look like vampire...
shant post anymore of this design then...haha....

next one is....

my super cute jap style!!!
haha...the way they styled my hair...
wah...i super like it sia!!
really lehz...haha...
so cute...
see my personal shot!

kawaii desu??


that's me in my bridal gown...
pretty ba??
haha...cannot imagine me looking so pretty rite??
haha...i knw i'm being a bit bhb here...
but who cares....
i'm a bride only once in a lifetime...
i guess i have all the reason to be pretty??
anyone disagrees??

did anyone notice this photo is especially big???
hahaha...
cos this is my favourite shot!
i look so pretty rite??
and my hubby so super smart...haha
we're the best-matched couple...
at least for the day...
haha...

and why do i say so??
cos the other couple who was also taking photos...
the bride hoh...looks unfriendly de...
she's so fierce-looking and so stern
and i think she's quite fierce to her husband too...
she controls what he wears...
*eeks* so scary....
i guess...its muz be pretty tough on her hubby...
anyway...i wanted to take a photos of her one...
but i scared she angry
so i dropped the idea...
hahahaha

anyway...back to me!!!

see...that's my "elegant" look with the head veil...

okok...that's all folks...
we didnt manage to take outdoor shoot for today...
cos...BAD WEATHER!!!
argh...nvm...next week it shall be...
haha

now its time for some candid shoots!!!

that's me...trying to take a full length photo of us...by ourselves!!


SIA air-stewardess -- in-the-making...


aiyo...SIA stewardess...becomes a puffer fish!! hahahahaa


ok...that's my hubby's younger bro...alvin...for those of you who didnt knw...
haha
after so many attempts then we managed to take one pretty shot ok...


ok folks...this is not the fierce bride...
this is my MOTHER-IN-LAW...
hahaha...
they say we look like sisters...
really ar????
is that a complimentary or...???? hahahaa

legally married

haha...i'm legally married!! haha...
the solemnization was easy...
it was juz a simple process of signing the cert..

to listen to the long story...blah blah blah...


the oath...the famous "i do"...


exchanging rings...
can see the xinfu look on my face...
or rather...our faces?? hahaha

then comes the photo-taking session...

darling, and his parents...


me n darling...and papa mama and didi...

then comes photos of me and my darling!!!




hahaha.....great fun...
my bro was having fun too!

the best moment...was when the solemnizer announced us man and wife...
and presented...mr and mrs lim junhong kelvin...
omg...u cant imagine that excitement and happiness...

i hope i will never forget this moment...

and we will always remember this happiness we are having now...

now time for some naughty photos...

hahahaha

bullying mommy...haha...

boxing didi...haha....

i won...i won...

aiya...haha...think i'm juz like wat jolyn says...
i cant be angry for too long de...haha
not with kelvin anyway...
(not at my colleagues too of cos...hahaha)

juz like wat she told me to do...
i didnt sms...didnt call kelvin

then when i went for checkup...
he finally called and apologise le
hahaha...

i won...i knew i would...haha...cos its not my fault ma!!!

he gave me false hopes that he would go with me...
then tell me cant go...
and expect me to juz let it down??
sorry...i cannot...haha....
i juz have to make some trouble for you...
to show my existence...!

hahahahahahahhahahah

why dun i understand you anymore...

why dun i understand you anymore...
have i changed so much?? that you become unrecognisable...
or is it the other way round??

i dun seem to know you anymore...
sometimes you seem so distant...
i dunno what are you thinking...
i dunno what are you doing...
i dun even know why is it that everything seems so unimportant to you...
have i juz become so unimportant to you?
or it has all the while been lidat??
juz that i nvr noticed??

can someone pls tell me???

why is it that he seems like the perfect guy ard...
but turn him ard...and he'll juz scold me off...

or perhaps its true that i'm juz too pampered...

u're under stress...yes...i understand
i nvr doubted that fault...
but am i not?!
am i undergoing anything less??
i dun think so right...
at least u can seek refuge at your camp
stay away from everything else...
stay in camp
juz dun book out

but wat can i do??
where can i go??

i used to have sorrows and hid in your house...
now...that seems not possible anymore either...

help me...

someone pls help me...

save me from these...

if getting married and everything else is going to be lidat...
i dun wanna get married anymore...
i dun wanna get married and regret my choice...
are we really too young?!

where have all the initial happiness gone to??!??!?!?

angry...super angry!!!

can someone pls go scold the shit out of my hubby?!
i'm juz super + super angry right now la...
so angry i can juz break out into tears right now...
even though i'm in office...sitting in front of my computer...

he knew it ok...he knew weeks ago that i'm going for the checkup today!
he knew i was going alone...
he said he dun wan me to go alone...
he said he will do sth about it...!

but wat happened...
he juz sat on my words...
and let time run...
till ytd, his officer tell him there's duty to be done today...
then he tell me i juz gotta go alone...
super disappointed and angry ok..!

if he had meant to go with me at all...
even the slightest bit, he would have done something...
he could have taken leave or applied for time off or sth well in advance right?!

well...perhaps gals can nvr understand army...
he said i was unreasonable...and that i dun understand him...

yah...perhaps i really dun understand him that slightest bit...
cos i dunno what's impt to him and wat's not...

he didnt even take leave for the solemnization...
or rather, he's not planning...not even the afternoon leave...
he's juz trying his luck with timeoff...
fine then...if he's doing things this way...
why then, am i getting so worked up?!
i also take time off lo...
why shld i waste my leave lidat...
if timeoff not approved then lagi better...
dun need to get married!!!

gown fitting...

haha...so happy...slept for over 15 hours on sat...
hahaha....nvr slept for so long before...
really nice shiok slp sia!
but too bad for dar dar...
he had to miss the soccer game at boat quay with wei and gang...
cos i was having nightmare...
and he juz couldnt leave me at home...

then hoh...sunday go play mahjong...still the same la...
lost...but ok la...not lose alot...so nvm...haha...
then come home...slp again...

so whole of this weekend...all i can remember is slp slp and more slp...hahaha...

then today after work...met wing and went for my gown fitting...haha...
some pictures of 3 of my gowns...
the bridal...the evening...and the bridal gown for outdoor shoot...hahaha...
try guessing which is which...!
and try guessing my favourite...

a fairytale come true

the past weekend had been great!

it was like a fairytale come true...
the whole weekend had been so wonderful!
especially on friday...

finally...he proposed decently...hahaha...
why do i say decently?
cos we've been arranging for our wedding already ma...
so no doubt i'm definitely gonna marry him...
but he hasn't proposed before!!!

no way am i letting him away with this...

so...finally he proposed...in his comm ball...
really...in the middle of his comm ball...
it was pre-arranged one!!!
and he kept me in the dark all the while...
it was a super pleasant surprise though...
and super romantic...

hahahaa...
juz couldnt stop laughing and smiling for the rest of the weekend...

then sat i couldnt wake up for work at all...so...
took mc and slept for the morning...
went for sushi buffet and then harbourfront...

then sunday...another slacky day...
stay home...slp...watch tv...go ah ma hse for dinner...
that's all!
hahaha...

but end of the day...still so super tired...

even now...also super tired...
and super uncomfortable...
haha...nvm...in good mood still!

so fun...

i'm beginning to love my life more...haha
went with kelvin's parents to choose the wedding package yesterday after work...

think its more or less decided and settled already...
tml morning can go choose my gowns and set date for photo shoot...
haha...

then dinner also almost settled already...left all those nitty-witty stuffs...
muz start on the photo slideshow...
muz decide on the choice of the mcs...
muz start printing invitations...
etc etc etc...

haha...so tiring...but so fun!!

darling know which camp he is being posted into already...
some Selatar camp...and dunno going there to do wat thing yet...
dunno gotta stay in camp or can book out de...
but anyway..i guess...at least after he's posted there...he's an officer already...
shld have a better life than now ba...hopefully for him...

ytd...came back to work after one day mc
saw gina...so tired and haggard...
couldnt help but feel for her...
she's so sad...but cant cry...
i really pray that God will take away her pain
and release her father in the best way He can...
Gina...be strong ok...we'll all be praying for you...and your family

haha...life is getting better!!

as if being a queen is not enough...
i think my luck is changing for the better...haha
hopefully...its gonna continue this way...

anway...i knw when and where my banquet's gonna be held already...
haha!!

guess my previous entry was really like bitter...
haha...
well...if you realise....
i blogged when i was working...
and unhappy things do happen in work...

this morning...we realised i made another stupid mistake in work...
shant elaborate on that anymore...
cos i dun wanna be reminded of it...
was rather unhappy the entire morning tho'...
but anyway...these arent going to affect me n my mood!
nope...not even the slightest bit...haha

but nevermind...went to collect my new contact lenses...
then went to the IT fair at Suntec...
was quite interesting...very packed...and some really good deals...
very tempting prices for the laptop i've been eyeing on too...

then met darling...
went with him to settle his donation card thingy first...
set my date for ROM...
went to see bridal gowns as well...
more shopping tomorrow...

haha...i literally am having anything that i wan...
everywhere...at home...at his place...in office...
haha...
i'm the queen!!!

gotta go bathe and slp now...
haha...
tired liaoz...

congrats to me!

well...i've realised that its fortunate to be marrying the person u love...
and who truly loves you...

and it's actually a breeze...
letting the person who does not loves you go...
which is also the person whom you do not love as much...
at the same time...if this person has brought you only hurt...
and memories of him are all sadness...
then there's no point in remembering him right?! haha!

i simply cant tolerate men who badmouths and bitches about you...
behind you...
after being together...
isn't whatever happened...between the two of them only?
this kinda men isn't destined to have gd relationships or gd women to them...

let's wait and see who will have the last laugh!

people who are waiting to see my marriage fail, you will NOT get your wish!
i think there's only this one person who cant wait to see my marriage fail ba...anyway...
i will be blissfully married...and my marriage will last a lifelong...
your wish will NOT come true!

already decided...the wedding will be held in early lunar 8th month...
so people who are being invited...you will get your invitations soon...
but people living in areas like punggol...sengkang...chances are i dun wan to trouble you...
hahaha!

anyway...darling's bringing me for photo shoot think somewhere later this mth...
cos he say he wants to celebrate my birthday for me...
in a romantic way...haha...
so...i'm not celebrating my birthday...
haha...not sad also...
cos...i'm juz in this blissful mood already!

excited!

hi all! i'm getting married...soon...but dunno when...
haha...
surprised right...
but well....its natural...haha....
afterall, me n my bf have been together for so long already rite...

our parents are meeting for dinner tonight to discuss about details...
and darling is not here with us...
cos he's gotta be in camp...booking out only tomorrow...

talking about darling...he's getting his sword today!!
haha...and next sat is his commissioning parade...happy
*darling...u've finally made it...after 9 long months...*

so friends...close friends will start receiving invitations soon enough...
for those who do not receive...u're just not invited...
haha...dun blame me...
its juz bcos we do not wanna make it too big a thing...

seems like its been some time since i last blogged...
quite a lot of things happened...
and quite major events as well...
could have well changed my life...
anyway...it did not happen as i would liked it to...
haiz~
did a decision...
which i may regret for life...
but well...wat other choices do i have??
i still have to think rationally rite??

do i still have the choice to play by my emotions?
can i still do as i like??
can i let go of all consequences??

NO...i cannot!!

haiz~ how i wish i can juz let loose of everything and juz do wat i wan...

i'm back!!

this is juz a short post...that i'm back!!!
haha...
this had been a fascinating trip...
the people had been great...
had great fun with all my newly made friends!
shall upload more pics when i have time...haha...