wedding photos

i was going thru my stuffs at home last evening...
and i chanced upon my wedding photos...
then i decided to post the entire series on my blog here...
cos i realised i havent already done so!!!

blur me...i shld have posted them here 2yrs ago when they were taken...
see how i have grown so much fatter within just a time frame of 2 yrs....haiz~

but nonetheless...i still love these photos!!

playing with handphone

finally!!! kayden has learnt to hold a handphone the correct side up...

and he is holding it to the correct place - the ear...

and he's talking to it...

he used to hold the phone upside down...etc

and never to his ear...

he always hold it to the back of his head...

and he would run away whenever he hears a sound from the phone...

seems like he's having fun with the phone too!

weekend with Kayden

on sunday...we went to visit ah gong at TTSH...

he had dengue fever...

and was hospitalised....

poor ah gong...

kayden didnt know what was going on...

but there were certainly a lot of people there to play with him

he was having a fun time eating bread...

a side note...he learnt to sit on a ledge too...

see he's sitting with his uncle...and eating his bread...

Singapore Flyer

this is the picture of the Singapore Flyer that i took at the Pan Pacific Hotel, Singapore....

isnt this picture magnificent!

ah gong's 80th birthday celebration

it was ah gong's 80th birthday yesterday...

we all went to OCC for his birthday celebration...

quite ok la...

food was reasonable...but PRICEY

we didnt find it fascinating...but the price indeed shocked us...

but nonetheless...

it was a happy occassion...

below are some of the photos that i took on my hp...

cos i forgot to bring my camera...

the 3 of us...waiting for food!!!

the crowd...

kayden was in an exceptionally good mood yesterday...

the 3 private rooms we opened for the celebration...

okok...that's all...cos i didnt take anymore photos...
haha...
enjoyable but tiring night though..
cos kayden fell asleep on the car on the way back...
so i had to carry him back...

rah.....

well...it does seem that people that i do not expect reading this blog are reading..
all the better!!!
if u're talking about me...just say so in the face
by the way u're writing about it...
i guess even an idiot can guess who u're writing about as long as you're involved in the incident...

i'm not like certain girls that complain to their boyfriends...hubbies...etc etc etc
for every small matter that happens in their lives...
i do believe we should give people and ourselves our own breathing space...
but for this...
i do believe my hubby should take note of it...
and steer clear of the paths of these people...

in anyway...
i still have no chance to talk to him about such trival matters yet...
he hasnt been home for the past 2 wks
and only really came back last evening...
and i was home late...

nonetheless...i shall make it a point to copy the log of the history of the conversation
and show it to my hubby
and see what he says about it...!

anyway...he's gonna be away in august again...
damn sianz...away again...and this time...it'll be for a longer period!!
and overseas somemore...
cant even talk/call..
cant be back on the weekends or even for a short nights out

and worse...
our travel gotta be postponed again...
AGAIN...
i dont care!!
this time round...for the final time...
i'm gonna go ahead and book my leave...
book the travel...
and go ahead with all travel arrangements....
if he cant make it, i'll go alone!!!!

i'm not saying a university education...a degree is not important...
i do believe it is important...
and especially so in today's society
ask a 3-yr-old kid..
and he'll be able to tell you university is important and he would want to study in one too!

i do, too, want to study in a university...
but not purely for the sake of a higher pay
(if i were to say not for money at all that would be fake)
in this travel line...
i dont think education makes much difference
experience is more important...
your past working experience...
and where have you worked with...
your contacts...your resume...all works way more impt than a certificate...

not one word have i ever said to say that its not important
however...it is NOT EVERYTHING...
it does not guarantee you a high pay...
it does not guarantee you better jobs etc
i do have friends and colleagues who only have O Levels passes
and have high pays...doting husbands and loving children...
i guess to me...that's more important...

and as for the gossip-mongers i mentioned in my previous entry...
i'm just gonna ignore them from now on...
well...since we've never been really close...
i guess i shldnt let these stupid matters bother me from now onwards...

as long as i know what i am doing...
and i dont feel any wrong in them...
i dont have to listen bother about what other people say or view about my words!

gossip mongers!!!

finally i've had my own taste of the POWER OF GOSSIP!!!
it can...indeed turn your words against you
and make meanings that you never ever meant!


what started off as a passing remark...
can actually become things in other people's mouth....


"oh...she so rich liao ar"
what would you see this statement as?
and how would you interpret it?


forget it...
if years of friendship turns sour cos of some tell-tale stories
and a statement like this...


this friendship is probably not worth it anyway...

dinner with colleagues at Carousel

last friday night...we had a team dinner at Carousel...
3 of our team couldnt make it...
but the rest of us were there...
and the dinner was fun!!!

the food spread was good...
the group was fun...
everything was just fun...

and there was a super cute baby there too...
u'll see more photos below...

and after the dinner...
we went for a ktv session at partyworld at IB...
its that latest Partyworld in Orchard..
and the place is quite big...
i mean...look at the room size of our room...
its HUGE!!!

a pity i had to leave early as i was catching a movie with kelvin and friends...
we caught Red Cliff on the night it opened!!!
the show not bad la...
but i thought it ended pretty abruptly...
in anyway...i'm looking forward to Part II of it...

excursion to the zoo

06 May...we brought Kayden to the zoo again...
so its Kayden's 2nd trip to the zoo...
and he loves it!!!
everything's so interesting...
not only to him...me too!
i love going to the zoo...

and kayden's learn to imitate the roar of a lion cos we heard it once then...
now everytime you ask him "Kayden lion...how does a lion roar?"
he'll go "rah...rah...rah.."
its super cute...!

okok...
this time i'll blog all of the photos for this trip...
but not individually as it'll take too long...
i've loaded them as a slide show below...
take your time viewing...!

dear...i love you...

its my 2nd ROM anniversary today...
Kelvin and I got our wedding registered 2 years ago today...
05July2006...
at a restaurant at Yishun...
with our families...
i'll never forget that day...
a simple dinner and setup...
with the solemnizer...
and our close relatives...
our wedding was officiated...

looking back at our past...
we've indeed gone through much together...
from our school days....
till we got married...

then i was pregnant with Kayden...

then see how bloated and fat i became late in the pregnancy...
and when Kayden was borned...
i still remember how Kelvin rushed to the hospital upon receiving the call from my office...
that i was in labour and they were sending me to hospital...

and after Kayden was borned...
how the post natal blues were affecting me so much i was crying day and night...
i couldnt sleep...
didnt know what to do with Kayden...
he was by my side...
with no complaints...
giving me all the help and support even though he too, was going through difficult times coping with stress in office and running between his home and my mom's place
he wasnt sleeping well too in the day he had to work...
at night he had to look after me and the newborn baby...

and finally our sort-of "honeymoon"
bringing Kayden and mommy to Hong Kong to visit my relatives Feb08...

at Repulse Bay...
in front of the 月老 i prayed...
i pray that we'll always be in love like now..
and i pray that i'll always love him like he loves me...
and that our marriage will last till the end of time...

and a few weeks ago when we went out shopping...

but dear...i'm glad i have married you...
and i am glad that we have gone through all these together...
i just want to let you know that I Love You!

dear...lately...i've been listening to this same song over and over again...
cos i am certain...
this song was written for you...
here's a short part of the lyrics just for you...

而你是我的答案最确定的答案
像走在一条花开的路不会错过美满
缘分转几个弯证明我们不会走散
学会用眼神牵手那才浪漫
你是我的答案不变的答案
有了自己的天使做什么都显得勇敢
顺着梦的沿岸只有收获没有遗憾
被握着手心看的未来永远蔚蓝

super cute photos of Kayden (1)

as Kelvin's not in...
i'm home with nothing to do except the computer and Kayden...
so i spent the entire morning sleeping and playing with Kayden...

was just looking through some old photos of Kayden...
and found some super cute ones...
so decided to post them here to share!!
the photos are not posted in chronological order...

photo taken taken on 11March2007...Kayden was only 2mths old then...

dated 18March - Kayden couldnt even sit up by imself at that time...
that's the reason why we propped him up with a pillow

a few months ago...our domestic helper was playing ard with Kayden...
and i did some funny editing to this photo...

in a bumble bee suit at my mom's place...
our family photos taken in March07...

when kayden was much younger...

and with the Ogre hairband that MacDonald's was selling earlier...
doesnt Kayden look like Shrek?!!!


on Kayden's 1st birthday party...
on our trip to Hong Kong Feb08...at Disneyland Hollywood Hotel...

and some recent photos...
at IMM on one of those moving "vehicles" for children...
Kayden loves them!!!
that day he spent 30mins on those and he simply refused to leave!!
with daddy Kelvin...
at home bathing last week....
super cute right!!!
seeing how Kayden has grown makes me feel really old...
see how his looks have changed!!
he used to look so much like a baby...
dependant on mommy and daddy for everything
now he likes a child...
and he's learnt to do so many things...
starting to become independant...
haiz~ time flies!!
a few more years and he'll be going to school...